According to the rumors, the wife of successful men should be younger 12 years than their husband. But in extension, most of them maybe should follow but I don’t think all successful men should follow this rule. Men haven’t mature before 30 years whether in mental, qualitative or economic.

From the mental side, in general, women are older 5 years than men, and it is considered right that if a man is older 5 years than her wife in a marriage. There is some inevitable conflicts if they get marriage too early, because the marriage is a matter of two people but should be a matter of two families, a combination of each from a different family. They have different hobbies and habbits . at that time, man are not all mature, and he probably would not accommodate his wife in their life, vise visa. So what it would be like in their life? Marriage requires a run-in, so the two people must be mature enough mentally.

From the qualitative side, men are different from women very much. When a woman get married, even the day she is old, she will thinking of her family, working hard for their children and more. She will dedicate herself on the fmaily.

However, playing is the nature of men, no matter how old he is.

Men always shoulder the multiple burdern of social responsibility, no matter how meticulous and conscientious in their daily life, there is a sense of childish of going out in their inner heart and conceal it . if a man get married early, his playfulness has not disappeared completely, a sense of responsibility has not been fully met, and the foundation of support family is not strong, let alone go out to play. But in his 40 years old, the time is dangerous for his status and economic, his pleasure is get back and the time for the broken of marriage is coming soon. But this doesn’t mean that men not committed, their nature is child even when they are old. Also it doesn’t mean that woman don’t like play out but they choose put their heart on their family.

From the economic side,  men started their own business own economic base when hey reach thirty yesars old, and they have the ability to support their family, and their childish still conceal in their heart, they can afford their playing assumption.

The most age for pregnancy should be 24 to 35 years old, and the years 24-29 is better. And it is better for a woman have a baby before 30 years old.

In conclusion, I think men should married around the age of 35, women should be 25 years old. At this time, no matter for men’s responsibility or the fertility for women is the best condition. And this is the integration point which maximize the benefits of the two aspects.